lemurgoddess ([info]lemurgoddess) wrote,
@ 2007-09-13 12:10:00
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Entry tags:culture and politics, rant

American Workers...
I seriously believe that one of the major underlying ills of our modern American Society is it has become part of our cultural psyche that you are expected to give your life up entirely to a job. And we have done so at the detriment of everything else in our lives.

What makes things more complicated is that it is also a part of our American Culture to get "BIGGER and BETTER." So we buy more crap, get inefficient (but pretty) vehicles, and enormous MANSIONS we can't afford all that cost so much that we need to work even more to pay it all off.

It's not hard to believe that families fall apart so easily these days. Parents can't afford to stay home more and care for their children so they grow up detached and distant from their families. Couples can't commit enough time to fostering a healthy relationship so marriages fall apart. BOTH parents have to work because they can't afford having one commit themselves fully to raising children.

Our obsession with our lifestyles, and by extension our jobs, is destroying what should be the most basic of joys in life. It all leads to neglect and abuse of those people we claim to care about... those people we are supposedly working so hard for.

This sort of thing is particularly bothersome to me because I live in a state with one of the HIGHEST Cost of Living, and the LOWEST wages in the country. It's a bitch to just make ends meet in this fucked up state, let alone try and raise a family. God only knows how my parents managed raising me and my sisters.

This little rant is due to THIS article about being "burned out" at work.




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[info]serenitysgaze
2007-09-13 04:54 pm UTC (link)
Yeah. I know I'm burned out... I just have no interest in stuff at work anymore - I just don't care. The need for money is the only thing keeping me there, and sheer apathy.

When you hope to be laid off (with severance), that's a sign...

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[info]varinobo
2007-09-13 05:25 pm UTC (link)
I guess I was inspired by my dad on what to do for a job and that is to work freelance. Financially it's a real strain to get started, but once the reputation in your chosen field gets better, the money also gets better. But I learned that money isn't the most important thing, it's doing what you love. Personally, I'd be incredibly happy to be a mom who writes at home and take care of my kids during their ever-so-important first years on earth. I know it sounds good in theory than it probably would be in practice, but somehow my parents did a good job of it and I intend to get LOADS of pointers from them.

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[info]cheshiretomcat
2007-09-14 02:32 am UTC (link)
rock on! you can make that sort of thing work but it takes planning and skills.

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[info]total_static
2007-09-13 05:28 pm UTC (link)
Seems like a very "Well, duh" article.

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[info]revp
2007-09-13 07:48 pm UTC (link)
This reminds me of an interesting bit I ran across recently. Did you know that there are only 3 countries in the world that do not have guaranteed paid maternity leave? They are: The United States, Australia, and Papua New Guinea.

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[info]cheshiretomcat
2007-09-14 02:31 am UTC (link)
you dont even want to get me started on this issue...I might rant and rave uncontrollably. it has such a hudge detramental effect on our families and our wellbeing.

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[info]poelaramont
2007-09-14 01:58 am UTC (link)
It's even worse when you are working someplace that, when you get down to the root of it, really isn't important. They expect the same devotion, though they are the one-celled organisms of the business kingdom.

We shall overcome.

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[info]cheshiretomcat
2007-09-14 02:29 am UTC (link)
might I also add to this the fact that we dont live in extended family situations as they do in many other cultures which among other things increases our need for child care and increases the cost of living. for instance can you as an american imagine livinging in a culture where a baby lives for an eintire year with out ever touching the ground because there is always someone there to hold it. they have a specail ceremony on the first birthday for the first time they touch the ground. a far cry from out culture of baby warehouses aka 'daycare' and drive thru junk food marketed to kids.

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[info]dyllanne
2007-09-14 11:19 am UTC (link)
It's going the same way here, although we do have maternity leave.

It's usually the social climbers that suffer the most. Living a life that's unsupportable with the amount of money they're able to earn.

I think there's a real need for people to re-valuate what's important and want what they have rather than have what they want.

And it's a lucky few of us that are talented enough to support and work for themselves. I'm not one of them.

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[info]25bluerose25
2007-09-14 01:45 pm UTC (link)
I experienced job burn-out earlier this year. I took a week off unpaid only because I couldn't afford to take off a month or so. I was seriously looking into sebatical.

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[info]moonbabyd
2007-09-14 02:29 pm UTC (link)
No kidding and I completely agree. Read my last entry from 9-12.

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